Here is the truth: some questions aren’t a reflection of The LSM Club. They are a reflection of where you believe you fit in society.
*** If you saw yourself as someone who deserves to live bigger, you wouldn’t ask for small access. If you believed you were meant for extraordinary rooms, you wouldn’t expect ordinary structures.
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The women who move in high-caliber circles don’t need casual group chats to feel connected. They don’t need low-effort systems to feel included. Their world operates at a different level.
Traditional private members’ clubs have existed since the 1800s, but they were built for a world that no longer exists, centered on old institutions and old-money social silos. They were never designed for the modern, globally-mobile woman. They weren’t built for the woman who leads in one timezone and invests in another. A club for women who fly in from around the globe to meet for lunch or elite sporting hospitality isn’t just a club. **It is a disruption.**
The woman who is our member attends an event that others treat as a “once-in-a-lifetime” occasion, while for them it is simply a Tuesday.
That is the standard. That is the environment.
So when someone asks questions that belong to small clubs or low-budget communities, it doesn’t tell us who we are. It tells us where you believe that you belong.
Many people are conditioned to stay in “average” spaces because they are familiar. When they encounter a club built purely for an elevated lifestyle, their mind struggles to process it. Not because they can’t afford it, but because they aren’t used to seeing themselves in that world.
“Not my scene” is a confession that you are more comfortable staying familiar than stepping into something bigger.
“Intimidating” is the word people use when they are confronted by a standard they have not grown into yet.
“Not for people like me” is a polite way of saying you are more comfortable being common than being exceptional.
The door is open. The question is: Do you see yourself walking through it?